Cock and Ball Bondage Tutorial II

Good morning, dear readers, I am back to share another fun cock and ball bondage tutorial! This one is simple and pretty, and has lots of options.

Remember to apply powder to absorb any excess moisture and help the ropes slide easily (this helps prevent pinching). 

Make a simple overhand knot in the MIDDLE of your rope (as always, I used 5/32poly cord).

Slip the knot over the cock and balls and pull to a comfortable tightness.

Take the right side of the rope and lay it across the cock to the left.

Lay the left hand rope across the TOP of the right hand rope (the one you just layed across)...

and bring it down UNDER the cock.

Bring it up and over, feeding the cord through the newly-created loop.

Pull to tighten to a snug yet comfortable tightness.

Experienced riggers or macrame artists may recognize this as a square knot. Essentially, you are simply wrapping the cock in a basic square knot. More knots and hitches can be seen in my blog entry Knowing the Ropes II - basic Bondage Knots.

Repeat this knot again, this time starting on the opposite side.

Continue making the knots until you reach the end of the penis.

I will say, this is much easier and looks much nicer on a HARD cock, but we were so busy fussing with taking the photos, we killed the "mood" a little. That's ok though, we got it figured out for you, readers.
Now you can use the remaining rope for a nice little leash to keep your naughty slave where he belongs.
Or, feeling a little more evil? 

Put the loose ends through the ring on the slave collar.

Secure with a couple of half-hitches....

and wrap the excess neatly around the cord (this is called a barrel roll or barrel tie, and looks awesome!)



Now have fun! Tease or torture to your heart's content.

Cock and Ball Bondage Tutorial

I finally found the time to put together the photo tutorial I have been promising for so long. I do apologize for keeping ya'll hanging, but situations arise that have priority over internet fun, so please forgive me, and enjoy this step by step tutorial for fun, safe, and stimulating cock and ball bondage.

The first step I always do is
REMOVE THE CHASTITY DEVICE

Sorry, that gave me a chuckle.

I like to dust the genitals with powder to help the ropes slide easier and prevent pinching. 

Now, down to business. For cock and ball bondage I use 5/16 poly cord. I do not recommend using anything thinner, as the thinner twines and strings can easily cut off circulation, or even cut the skin. I got a nice neat skein of this 5/16 cord at Lowes for $2. Be safe, not cheap. $2 is a small price to pay to avoid accidentally castrating yourself. 

Tie a simple overhand knot (at the end of your rope, not the middle) around the base of the cock and balls.

Slide the loop around so the knot is under the balls, and pull to tighten to a snug and comfortable tightness. Remember to always slide your finger under the knot when tightening to avoid pinching the delicate skin of the scrotum, as shown below. 

Wrap the rope neatly and snugly around the cock and balls as shown. Make sure the rope lays smooth and flat, any twists or overlaps can cause discomfort and frankly, just looks like shit.

Bring the rope down between the balls and

cross over behind the scrotum as shown below. 

Do the same on the other side, bringing the rope down under the balls and crossing over in back.

 Wrap as many times as you like. The more wraps around the balls you use, the tighter it will squeeze them. I like to use three, I feel it is the perfect amount of pressure without causing too much discomfort. We don't wanna have to unwrap it right away because the balls are too tight, right?

Bring the rope back around to the top, lift the cock and begin wrapping around the penis only. Wrap snugly, taking care to keep the ropes smooth and flat. 

Sorry, this pic came out kinda blurry, but you get the idea.

When you come to the end of the rope (or the end of the cock, whichever comes sooner), leave the last loop slack enough to tie two simple overhand knots as shown below. Pull to tighten.

Trim or tuck the loose end.

You now have a beautifully bound cock, leaving the balls and head exposed and available for all kinds of delightful fun. Lick, kiss, nibble, pinch, flick, tap, slap, smack, or one of my personal favorites, tickle with an ostrich plume!

Enjoy applying these tips to your own bondage methods! Remeber to play safe, sane and consensual, and keep your safety scissors closeby!!!

I FUCKING LOVE ROPE

Check out the beautiful ankle restraints, arm binders, and bar wraps I did on my gorgeous sissy this morning.

What a wonderful way to spend a morning! It's worth the extra time, effort and care to make the ropes are smooth, even, neat, symmetrical, and of course, completely inescapable. *grin*

I told her if she can escape from my ropes and take my "weapon" from me, she would "win"... or she could forfeit and take 20 strokes with my most sadistic paddle, the "motherfucker." 

 Since she was getting absolutely nowhere, I decided to be nice and untie one essential knot. Look at her go!

And her legs are free. At this time I stopped taking pics and continued the game. She DID manage to escape and take my cane from me, and admitted openly that there was no way she would have escaped had I not untied that square knot for her.

What a great time! Sometimes a fun game and some lighthearted play is a nice refreshing change from a serious, hardcore torture scene. 
Delightful!

Knowing the Ropes II - Basic Bondage Knots

*Please read my article: Knowing the Ropes I - Bondage Safety before proceeding*

If you want to explore bondage, you need to have some knowledge of knots. You can accomplish safe and effective bondage just a few knots. In a future post, I will show you more advanced, prettier knots for more "showy" bondage, but first things first.

ROPE
Choose your rope according to what you are tying. For typing limbs, body harnesses, rope bras, etc, I use 3/8 rope, but 5/16 works well aslo. CBT would obviously use a much thinner rope (I like 5/32 poly cord) and suspension would need a much thicker, stronger rope.

• Nylon and polypropylene rope are popular, they're cheap, smooth on the skin and have very little stretch. They doesn't absorb sweat or fluids, making them more sanitary and easier to clean. Lots of fun colors, too.

• Marine rope is also very popular, for it's sleek feel and extreme durability. Very popular for suspension.

• Hemp and jute can be used by the more sadistic rope slinger, as they are mildly abrasive but very strong. 

• Cotton rope does not stretch and holds a knot well, but is absorbent to anything that touches it, and breaks down and frays faster.

KNOTS and HITCHES

The first knot you need to know is the Square Knot, also known as the Reef Knot. This is a very simple knot, used to tie two ropes together, or to cinch around a heavy wrap job. The square knot is more or less flat, so it applies less pressure on the skin and nerves than other knots, therefore making it perfect for beginner's bondage.

Another excellent bondage is the French Bowline. This is similar to a Fisherman's Loop, in that it creates a loop that does not slip. It will not tighten or loosen under pressure, making it the safest knot to use for ankle or wrist restraints. Use as many "loops" as you like to make your restraints wide, spreading the pressure across more surface area, making it safer and more comfortable. 

The Half Hitch is super handy for tying your partner to a bedpost or other stationary object, and can also be used to finish off a wrap. It's easy to untie when the time comes, which is a perk. Never use a half hitch for tying limbs (as they can cut off circulation) or for suspension (we will learn suspension in a later post). This pic shows both a single and a double half hitch.

Another simple hitch is the Clove Hitch. Like the Half Hitch, it is very handy for trying TO something, like a bedpost or pole, and should never be used directly on the limbs, or for suspension.

 There you go, my kinky friends. All the knots you need for beginner's bondage. Please remember to play safe, sane and consensual, and WHERE ARE YOUR SAFETY SCISSORS?!

Knowing the Ropes part 1 - Bondage Safety

I would like to talk a little bit about the most common form of bdsm play, bondage. This is the one that all the newbie kinksters want to jump right into, with no knowledge of safety procedures and precautions. It's not just wrapping someone in rope, people! For that reason I would like to discuss a little bit about bondage safety for those who are curious about engaging in this fun and erotic activity.


Basic Safety (or "Common Sense is Not So Common")

First and foremost - KNOW YOUR PARTNER! We tell our children, "Never talk to strangers." We kinky adults should follow the simple rule "Never play with strangers." Please do not just pick up someone online who wants to tie you, you don't know who this person is. Do you really want to be completely helpless and at the mercy of a TOTAL STRANGER?! You're liable to end up killed. KNOW YOUR PARTNER! Discuss safe words, safe calls, and limits LONG BEFORE you engage in playtime. If it is someone you only know online or have only known in real life for a short period of time, MAKE THAT SAFE CALL! (A safe call is a phone call to a trusted friend or relative telling them where you are, what you are planning on doing, and when you are expected to leave. If you are suddenly not heard from again, they know where to look.)

Subs, if you have any MEDICAL CONDITIONS, discuss them with your Dominant partner. Dom/mes, make sure to ask your submissive play partners if they have any medical conditions. This can be asthma, heart problems, high or low blood sugar, bone or joint injuries, circulation problems, anxiety, panic disorder, anything can can be adversely affected by this kind of play. It is a wise idea to have a MEDICAL RELEASE signed saying "In the event of an emergency, (insert name) has permission to obtain medical care for me" with a copy of your ID in a sealed envelope and available to your Dominant at all times. Dom/mes, you should know where this information is located at all times.

Please remember - PLAY SOBER, PLAY SAFE. Never, EVER engage in BDSM play while you or your partner are under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Not one beer, not one toke. Not one. Your judgment is impaired, your sensory and pain receptors are impaired. Don't do it. Just don't.

They're tied, they're bound, they're helpless. Now is time to PAY ATTENTION! Check the extremities frequently for signs of  loss of circulation. Check the color. Purple is bad. Feel them with your own hands. They should not be cold to the touch. If you can't slip a single finger between the ropes and their skin, the ropes are too tight.


STAY WITH THEM! Never leave a bound person alone. For role-playing, the bound and abandoned victim bit, sure, that's fun. You can leave the room, but keep an ear on them. Use a baby monitor. NEVER EVER leave the house. What if there is a fire? What if there is a break-in? What if they start freaking out and asphyxiating? This is not to be taken lightly.

Communication is key. If your bound sub says the ropes are too tight, their hands are numb, they have shooting pains, they are freaking out... LISTEN TO THEM. Cut them loose IMMEDIATELY.

And where are your safety shears? They need to be at ARM'S LENGTH at ALL TIMES!!! Not across the room, not upstairs, not in the toybag. ARM'S REACH. Or even better, tucked in your boot, or holstered in your toolbelt if you wear one. I STRONGLY recommend EMT safety shears, they are blunt on one side to slide under the ropes without piercing the skin, and they are sharp enough to cut through sailing rope.

ALWAYS BE SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL!!! It's a matter of life or death.

Know your knots before playing. This is not the time for trial and error. Some knots slip or pinch and can cause problems! Stay tuned for my bondage knot tutorials.

Sissies and Massages and Fuck Pigs, Oh My!!!

I can hardly begin to describe the insanity that went down in my house this afternoon. I am kicking myself severely for not taking pics. I managed to snap two (bad) pics with my cellphone, which I will include.

Sissy arrived early, which is unlike her. She is usually on time to the minute. I put her to work scrubbing down the walls in her ruffled uniform and 5 inch heels while Bacon worked in the kitchen. I took my time getting ready, having fun doing my makeup and playing with my hair, and when I was finished I just sat and looked pretty while the slaves finished their chores.

I brought the boys downstairs and made them strip. Sissy down to her sequined red panties and stockings, and Bacon down to the flesh. I bent them over side by side, four perfect asscheeks to spank, all in a row. What fun! I paddled them both soundly, until their asses were a nice cherry red. When I felt their poor tushies had had enough, I moved on to more interesting things.

I ordered them to stand back to back, with their heels touching, and wrapped their ankles in several layers of cellophane. Teetery things, they were. I wrapped them together from the shoulders to the hips, to their cocks were free for me to play with and their hands were tightly wrapped flat at their sides.

 "Now, dance." I told them and delighted in their silly hopping and wiggling. When I got bored, I sat on the low stool in front of Sissy and engaged in a little cock and ball torture, wrapping her cock in rope and swatting at her balls, making her jump.

"Don't fall down, if you fall down you are in trouble. Now turn around."

They pivoted and moved their feet until Bacon was now facing me for his turn, but he got a different kind of torture. He's such a big baby about chastity and constantly whining about how bad he wants to cum, I thought I might have fun edging him. I pressed up against him, breathing in his ear and stroking his cock. It wasn't long before he started to whine. When I felt his cock begin to throb, I let go and smiled evilly. "I bet you want to cum REALLY bad," I whispered, and walked away.

Rummaging around in Sissy's toybag I found a smaller roll of wrap, about 5 inches wide, and sat back down on the low stool, with Sissy's cock and balls at eye level, all bound with ropes and swollen. Holding the balls against the cock, I wrapped it very tightly with layer upon layer of cellophane, and followed suit with Bacon. Then I garnished each one with a pretty bow, just for fun.

"Chastity cage doesn't seem so painful anymore, does it?" I asked them, and gave their "packages" a firm smack.
"No, Mistress," the Sissy replied.
I looked at Bacon. "What about you? Not so bad, eh?" and smacked his package again.
"No, Ma'am."
"Good," I smiled and whacked their chests and legs with my bamboo rod, then a wooden paddle. They are both very sensitive to nipple impact, so it was nice for me to be able to strike a little harder than normal. The cellophane offered some protection. I slapped their pretty packages every so often to keep their attention, and eventually got bored and cut them loose.

I ordered Bacon to the corner to kneel on the concrete and stroke his cock, but not to cum.
Sissy I had other plans for. I ordered her face-down to the floor for a good spanking. I spanked her over and over with the kayak oar, and when I struck hard, she would tend to jump or try to roll over. I bound her ankles quickly but tightly with my quick ties, sat on her legs, and spanked her even harder. I explained to her that she must learn to accept what is given to her. If it was too much, she could call her safeword, but otherwise, she MUST accept her spankings with grace and dignity. I spanked and spanked until her ass was a shade of red that satisfied me, and then I crawled down next to her and held her close. Sending Bacon to fetch lotions for my massage, I had some quiet cool-down time with my pretty sissy maid, drying her tears, kissing her, telling her she is a good girl, and that she was very brave.

When Bacon returned and Sissy had pulled herself together, it was time for my massage and worship. I stripped down to my panties while Bacon fetched the long table. I laid face down and enjoyed their strong hands rubbing me down with fresh, summery-smelling lotion. Their four hands traveled over my body firmly but gently, relaxing and arousing me at the same time. They rubbed every part of me, every inch, and I rolled over so they could continue their magic. When I was nice and relaxed, I sat up and they immediately positioned themselves at my feet like good slaves, and we took a little time to talk and hang out.

Noting the time, I sent Sissy upstairs to clean her chastity device thoroughly for a few more weeks of lockup, and to change out of her sissy clothes and back into her guy clothes. During that time, I ordered Bacon into spanking position, and took out a little aggression on his ass with my trusty bamboo cane. I told him to keep a better eye on my drinks in the future, to not let my glass get empty, to take better care with cleaning behind the toilet. His poor cock was now purple and raging, and I told him what a horny little pig he is.
"Now off! Go fetch your pig uniform and do it fast!" He scurried away and came back a moment later with his pig snout, ears and tail. He put on the nose and ears, and offered his ass to me to insert the tail. What a good boy. He looks so fucking cute in his pig outfit. I inserted the tail into his ass, and he moaned like a horny little fuckboy.I rammed it in and out a few times, getting him good and worked up.
"Are you a little fuckpig?"
"Yes, Ma'am"
"Yes, my dirty little fuckpig, aren't you?"
"YES, MA'AM"
"Now look for truffles, piggy!"
He took off on his hands and knees, snout to the floor, snorting and snuffling like a little pig should. I smacked him with the bamboo cane, telling him he is a naughty pig, he snorted and snuffled and WHEEEEE'ed when I struck him. He came to my feet where he planted kisses upon them, all the while continuing to snort like a piggy. He kissed up my legs and thighs and I grabbed his hair, driving his pig snout into my panties, holding it there, and throwing him back to the floor.
"TRUFFLES!"
Off he went again, nose to the floor, snorting and rooting and waggling his piggy tail. The cane stripes on his ass raised into red welts. He looked fantastic. His ass in the air, his snout to the floor, his swollen purple cock hanging between his legs.
"Enough now!"
I ordered him to kneel and edge his cock yet again, and Sissy returned to the dungeon for me to lock her device. Our session time was up. I looked at Bacon.
"Up!"
He stood.
"Clean up this mess"
I took Sissy upstairs to see her out, and Bacon emerged shortly thereafter.
I rubbed up against him.
"You were a good pig today."
He beamed. "Thank you, Ma'am."
I grabbed his cock. "I bet you would like to cum, wouldn't you? It's been WEEKS, hasn't it?"
"Yes, Ma'am"
I patted his cheek and smiled. "Not today, my piggy. Not today." And I locked him back up.
I love them both so very much.
What a wonderful day.

Mummification