Cock and Ball Bondage Tutorial II

Good morning, dear readers, I am back to share another fun cock and ball bondage tutorial! This one is simple and pretty, and has lots of options.

Remember to apply powder to absorb any excess moisture and help the ropes slide easily (this helps prevent pinching). 

Make a simple overhand knot in the MIDDLE of your rope (as always, I used 5/32poly cord).

Slip the knot over the cock and balls and pull to a comfortable tightness.

Take the right side of the rope and lay it across the cock to the left.

Lay the left hand rope across the TOP of the right hand rope (the one you just layed across)...

and bring it down UNDER the cock.

Bring it up and over, feeding the cord through the newly-created loop.

Pull to tighten to a snug yet comfortable tightness.

Experienced riggers or macrame artists may recognize this as a square knot. Essentially, you are simply wrapping the cock in a basic square knot. More knots and hitches can be seen in my blog entry Knowing the Ropes II - basic Bondage Knots.

Repeat this knot again, this time starting on the opposite side.

Continue making the knots until you reach the end of the penis.

I will say, this is much easier and looks much nicer on a HARD cock, but we were so busy fussing with taking the photos, we killed the "mood" a little. That's ok though, we got it figured out for you, readers.
Now you can use the remaining rope for a nice little leash to keep your naughty slave where he belongs.
Or, feeling a little more evil? 

Put the loose ends through the ring on the slave collar.

Secure with a couple of half-hitches....

and wrap the excess neatly around the cord (this is called a barrel roll or barrel tie, and looks awesome!)



Now have fun! Tease or torture to your heart's content.

Cock and Ball Bondage Tutorial

I finally found the time to put together the photo tutorial I have been promising for so long. I do apologize for keeping ya'll hanging, but situations arise that have priority over internet fun, so please forgive me, and enjoy this step by step tutorial for fun, safe, and stimulating cock and ball bondage.

The first step I always do is
REMOVE THE CHASTITY DEVICE

Sorry, that gave me a chuckle.

I like to dust the genitals with powder to help the ropes slide easier and prevent pinching. 

Now, down to business. For cock and ball bondage I use 5/16 poly cord. I do not recommend using anything thinner, as the thinner twines and strings can easily cut off circulation, or even cut the skin. I got a nice neat skein of this 5/16 cord at Lowes for $2. Be safe, not cheap. $2 is a small price to pay to avoid accidentally castrating yourself. 

Tie a simple overhand knot (at the end of your rope, not the middle) around the base of the cock and balls.

Slide the loop around so the knot is under the balls, and pull to tighten to a snug and comfortable tightness. Remember to always slide your finger under the knot when tightening to avoid pinching the delicate skin of the scrotum, as shown below. 

Wrap the rope neatly and snugly around the cock and balls as shown. Make sure the rope lays smooth and flat, any twists or overlaps can cause discomfort and frankly, just looks like shit.

Bring the rope down between the balls and

cross over behind the scrotum as shown below. 

Do the same on the other side, bringing the rope down under the balls and crossing over in back.

 Wrap as many times as you like. The more wraps around the balls you use, the tighter it will squeeze them. I like to use three, I feel it is the perfect amount of pressure without causing too much discomfort. We don't wanna have to unwrap it right away because the balls are too tight, right?

Bring the rope back around to the top, lift the cock and begin wrapping around the penis only. Wrap snugly, taking care to keep the ropes smooth and flat. 

Sorry, this pic came out kinda blurry, but you get the idea.

When you come to the end of the rope (or the end of the cock, whichever comes sooner), leave the last loop slack enough to tie two simple overhand knots as shown below. Pull to tighten.

Trim or tuck the loose end.

You now have a beautifully bound cock, leaving the balls and head exposed and available for all kinds of delightful fun. Lick, kiss, nibble, pinch, flick, tap, slap, smack, or one of my personal favorites, tickle with an ostrich plume!

Enjoy applying these tips to your own bondage methods! Remeber to play safe, sane and consensual, and keep your safety scissors closeby!!!

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So You're Looking For a Domme Part II: Terminology

 Do not list yourself as a "sub" if you only want to serve on your terms.

If you wish to find a woman that you can worship, adore, love, sacrifice to, serve with honor and passion, belong too, offer your allegiance, give her your power in order to nourish her dominant spirit, and exist for the pleasure of said woman with your own sacrifice for her pleasure bringing you joy in abundance, THEN you are a submissive.
If you want to get together on the weekends, get spanked, lick her boots, and maybe have a piss cocktail before a romp in the sack, then you are a kinkster.
If you want to be with a woman who will enjoy giving you whippings, CBT, and other BDSM delights, then go home and jerk-off to the memories until you need another painful humiliating date, then you are a bottom.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG OR DIMINISHED BY BEING A KINKSTER OR A BOTTOM.

But when a "Domme" says she is seeking a "submissive." She is seeking the first paragraph.
If all you really want is kink, or a weekend of play now and then, but you really do not seek to be an instrument of pleasure and a helpmate to a dominant woman in ALL facets of her life. NOT just the dungeon. Then writing to a Domme and offering her your soul simply because she is a dominant woman and you hope to get your kink on, is just about as useless as pissing up a rope.
She IS going to find out that you are not a sub jiffy damned quick. Most likely that fact will be revealed in your intial letter in ways you cannot even comprehend for the simple reason that you are not a submissive. You don't write as a sub would. You don't speak as a sub would. And you sure as hell aren't going to act as a sub would. Not because of any fault of yours. You are just not understanding the reality of what you think you seek.
If you are a kinkster, seek out a kinkster woman. They aren't hard to find.
Likewise if you are a bottom or a masochist, seek out a top or a sadist.
The two of you will have a wonderful time together. But if you aren't a submissive, for God's sake quit getting on DS sites and offering Dommes something that you could not do on your best day.
It is just simple terminology gentlemen. If you aren't a sub, then a Domme is going to make you crazy and you will soon be dumped like yesterdays news even if you slip in under the radar and get her attention in the first place.
Just know what you are really after and go for the right kind of woman for you.

contributed by closetsitter1